Category: Cost
Title: Eye Contact
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Hi Lateace, love your name... I thought maybe I would throw a trouble of mine at you and see what you have to say. I have this eye contact problem with women. It's not that I'm shy or a virgin even. I'm not gay and I know how to be romantic. I guess maybe it would be a form of shyness, but when I look up and notice a girl is staring at me I do a little giggle and make a smile and it so annoys me. I try to do excercises were I'm in places with millions of beautiful women and I'm forced to look at them in the eyes so I get use to it. And it's not a matter of that I guess. Perhaps it's just from too many heartbreaks and I'm doing some relating thing in my mind. But it's been over a year now since my last girl friend and I feel I'm ready to start looking again. In general I'm soft spoken, but I have no shyness to speak what is on my mind. If I can get past the eye contact situation I have no problem letting a woman give me a chance for my mind and one for hers to be heard. I guess I just need help getting over that first little step. If you find me hopeless don't feel bad to just slap me. Maybe thats all I need... Thanks for your ears(eyes) may your day be beautiful... |
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Hi Arthur,
They say that the eyes are the window of the soul. They are right, eyes don't lie. They can be forceful and sad and troubled and beautiful and demanding all in a split second. Every single one of us on this planet has a place inside of them that they let very few people go. That place is your soul. It is a place of wonders and joy but it is also fragile. The reason you're having trouble looking girls in the eye stems from an eternal need for security. To open the window to your soul and receive the same in return is a chance every one of us takes when two people share the same moment in time. To say hi with your eyes and get go away with her's quite honestly hurts. We are creatures that don't like to be hurt and we will do anything to avoid pain. The minute most men understand why they have trouble looking women in the eye (fear of pain, rejection and embarrassment) they tend to realize that the mightiest iron is forged in fire just like the best relationships. There are a set of kind eyes just waiting to meet yours. All you have to do is find them.
LaTeace |
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